{"id":201,"date":"2008-08-29T19:47:01","date_gmt":"2008-08-30T02:47:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/?p=201"},"modified":"2008-08-29T19:49:09","modified_gmt":"2008-08-30T02:49:09","slug":"my-brothers-keeper","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/my-brothers-keeper\/","title":{"rendered":"my brother&#8217;s keeper"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(or, <a href=\"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/?p=197\" target=\"_blank\">damned to hell<\/a> part II)<\/p>\n<p>Ah, yes, Cain really had it come&#8217;n to him.\u00a0 Having readily dispatched Abel for arguably poor reasons, Cain was getting ready to have his ass handed to him by the lord-someone&#8217;s-god. A voice from on high: &#8220;Hey, Abel, where&#8217;s your brother?&#8221;\u00a0 Simple enough, but Cain had to be a smart ass in his response thus giving us the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?book_id=1&amp;chapter=4&amp;verse=8&amp;end_verse=10&amp;version=31&amp;context=context\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Am I my brother&#8217;s keeper?&#8221;<\/a> colloquialism which still lives on today.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>When the &#8220;brother&#8217;s keeper&#8221; idea is thrown around it makes me curious if the person really knows what they&#8217;re talking about.\u00a0 Generally it&#8217;s typically the biblical set who tend to drop the phrase, so you&#8217;d think they&#8217;d get the story straight.\u00a0 God wasn&#8217;t asking Cain if he <em>protected<\/em> his brother from harm.\u00a0 And Cain wasn&#8217;t saying, &#8220;hey, it&#8217;s not my job to look after him&#8221;.\u00a0 Cain was dodging a murder charge, and god was try&#8217;n to get him to fess up.\u00a0 It really has nothing to do with protecting someone else from harm.<\/p>\n<p>So, when I got my most recent cryptic voicemail talking about brotherly keeperly it started to become clear that the issue at hand here is\/was my interaction with the caller back in my Christian days, most likely to do with my getting out of the church.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to keep in mind that I know who this person is and that I have known him for several years.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s start calling him Echo.\u00a0 Echo and I were housemates for at least 2 years, and had regular contact for at least 4 years while I was still in Illinois.\u00a0 Most of that time was while I was a bible-toting believer in the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Southern_Baptist_Church#Position_statements\" target=\"_blank\">Southern Baptist Church<\/a>.\u00a0 However, for reasons which are too long to go into here, I left the church, renounced my faith, lost an entire group of friends (and one girlfriend), and reclaimed the joy of <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hedonism\" target=\"_blank\">hedonism<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Agnosticism\" target=\"_blank\">agnosticism<\/a> to which I now subscribe.<\/p>\n<p>Echo, who you could say that I mentored while a member of the church, tried to bring me back into the fold when I left.\u00a0 We soon lost contact when that didn&#8217;t work.\u00a0 I ran into him a few times after that, at Wal-Mart (how midwestern, you say) and such.\u00a0 The last time I saw him he was at a bar.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t remember the story, but I think he fell away from the church himself.\u00a0 He&#8217;s called a few times since then, and at least twice since I moved to Seattle, both times asking for computer support or something of the like.\u00a0 We weren&#8217;t close while I left Illinois, we certainly aren&#8217;t close now.<\/p>\n<p>That brings us to the present:\u00a0 the most recent voicemail from Echo was a recording played into the phone of a fiery sermon by somebody unknown.\u00a0 It was barely intelligible, but what I did catch from it was that it was likely centered around a chapter in Ezekiel and had a lot of churchy phrases like &#8216;righteous&#8217; and &#8216;my name is the lord&#8217; and &#8216;vengeance&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sad to say, it doesn&#8217;t surprise me that Echo is apparently incapable of articulating his own thoughts and feeling without extensive cursing or the use of pre-recorded material. Even sadder, it looks like Echo has once-again embraced the church and blames me for choices he made while I was his brother&#8217;s keeper.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the best I can surmise from this kettle of fish.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing on the voicemail was Echo telling me in a creepy, deep voice to &#8220;Repent&#8221;.\u00a0 No thanks, I&#8217;ll keep my soul right where it&#8217;s at.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(or, damned to hell part II) Ah, yes, Cain really had it come&#8217;n to him.\u00a0 Having readily dispatched Abel for arguably poor reasons, Cain was getting ready to have his ass handed to him by the lord-someone&#8217;s-god. A voice from on high: &#8220;Hey, Abel, where&#8217;s your brother?&#8221;\u00a0 Simple enough, but Cain had to be a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/my-brothers-keeper\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">my brother&#8217;s keeper<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[129,133,132,60,130,19],"class_list":["post-201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","tag-bizarre","tag-damned-to-hell","tag-echo","tag-friendship","tag-miscommunication","tag-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=201"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":206,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201\/revisions\/206"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmwoley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}